Choc and Mrs Nop. Much of what you two are posting applies to my situation. Just wanted to let you know you have my empathy for your frustrations past and present as they apply to each of your situations.
Last friday and today I too had to almost rip my heart out and lay it on the line. It hurt BB both times. I did not want to do that but did not know how else to move foward. Maybe it did some good.
I don't want this post to be about me. Just letting you know the proccess is gut wrenching sometimes and encourage you to continue. Some of the hardest parts are bringing up difficult topics in what should be fair to both parties. I don't have that mastered.
Choc I am rooting for you to do the best you can. Mrs NOP wrote some good lines here.