HP

I like this and I am stealing it.

Being a woman and being faced with a lifetime of namby-pambyness from your MAN is a bummer that I can't seem to shake lately.

Odd my H is the HD he two wants me to be the person to be the sexual opener. You are the HD and you want your H to be the sexual opener. Hmmm dont think it is a gender thing
wondering if it is even about sex after reading your post and knowing him.Wonder if it is about being made to feel desired by your S instead of having to be the one showing that you desire your S.
Sorta like it would be nice to recieve a compliment instead of having to be the one to always give a compliment.
Just a hmmm for me to over analize.

Have a great girls night out. (yes I wish I was allowed one)