I'm not really playing head games so much as doing something that actually makes the sexual interaction LESS than what it could be. It lessens my desire for him when I have to be the one pursuing him, all the time. I do it so that we have a sex life but if he would reciprocate, I would actually feel turned on. Half the time I am not turned on, I just pretend to be so that HE will loosen up and let his desire out to play. Then when he does, the fun starts.
I can tell he may want to ML but he won't go any further til I "draw it out of him". So I put on my Aggressive Hat and go for the gusto and yet I'm not feeling any gusto yet.
It would be exceedingly nice if he'd DO something to demonstrate his desire instead of sending out signals that he'd be open to ME starting something.
At any rate, I'm having a girls night out tonight with my sisters. He will feel horny for me when I get home because he usually does when I'm gone. It's like he sees me all dolled up and knowing that I'm going somewhere without him and it snaps his rubber band pretty hard and he remembers, Hey she is kinda attractive... Weird. Plus, he misses me when I'm gone. So he will want to ML tonight. We're nothing if not predictable! lol
Corri told me long ago to do more GAL; that this would awaken something in him and I have not done that yet, since the girls are so little. There is some huge potential in that idea, tho.
