I will talk to him as soon as the j-o-b stuff settles down. In the meantime, I will just put a lid on it and try to get back to being more flirty, or whatever it was he became accustomed to.
It WAS working, I just thought that, with time, he would open up in this way too and we'd both be doing this to each other. Instead it's stayed all on my shoulders and he has viewed his portion to be upping the frequency.
Now that the frequency is slipping, I'm no longer willing to keep my yap shut. I gotta have something from him, kwim?
But like I said, this is not the time. I will try to work my magic with the sbt techniques and save the R discussions for later.
Zbube, What I meant by the Woman statement was that me aggressively pursuing sex is not a "natural" thing for me. I am doing it solely because it is working for our R. I feel very much like a man in the way that I act and I would vastly prefer to go back to acting in my normal way and have HIM act like the dude.
So I was saying, Yeah good is good but I can't see a lifetime of acting in a way that feels unnatural to me.
What if your wife was turned on when you acted demure and coy? Would you be able to do this for the rest of your life and suppress the normal way you really are? SHOULD you even do this?
I guess that's where I was going with that question...
