HP,
I guess it is time to talk with him about where you see it heading and where you'd like it to go. Hard, I know. But...the more your talk about these hard things in a loving non-confrontational manner, the easier it will become. I can't help but to think that as he learns you inside and out that he won't start doing more to please you. He's gotta feel what you are feeling first though. So when are you going to WWME?

---GGB, who is realizing if he could follow his own advice, he'd be getting along a bunch better too. That talking thing is hard when you gotta keep it loving, eh?