HP,
Well, I do hear ya sister! I was just trying to point out that you both have a lot of crap on your plates, so not to expect everything to be ideal. Look on the bright side though, even though the sex isn't what you'd like it to be, you have said it is better. More importantly, look how far you two have come in the past year with your being able to talk to each other. You are "Having fun and enjoying each other". HP, I've said it before, and I'll say it again. I truely admire what I know of your relationship with MrHP. You've got a lot to be proud of, and who knows, the road may still lead where you want it to go...as your communication improves, you might find him getting more lightbulb moments.

--GGB, Feeling like a bit of an idjot himself, but I'll journal that elsewhere when I have some time.