Re the LD memories of sexual frequency: I remember one time at the last C that we went to, BF said it had been a "couple of months" since the frequency of our sexual encounters dropped way off. I pointed out that it had been more than A YEAR! And I could back that up by citing that it had been before his heart surgery which indeed had been more than a year before. If I hadn't been able to point to the surgery, he would not have believed me, and would have said I was just saying this to make him look/feel bad.
