hiya Lou, Yeah, I have thought about the whole health aspect of it. I suppose that if he was even AWARE that the frequency has drastically dropped off, I would chalk it up to that.
Here's what I think is weird:
He does not remember the frequency--or even have a close approximation of what it was--but he has lamented the fact, several times, that I have changed and am not as aggressive as I once was.
Did he think I would stay like this forever?
Aggressively interested in a lukewarm spouse?
Does that make sense to anyone or am I just being a hardnose?
Ah well, I am really employing all the SBT techniques that I have in my arsenal this week and hoping to get us out of this semi-rut we're in. We are getting along splendidly but the sex is HO HUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM.
If you look back over my threads of the last 2 months, I keep saying that the frequency is slipping..slipping.
I gotta nip this in the bud but I'd prefer it to not be ME driving the train, as it has been for the last 3 years.
I'm a mess...I'm sick of being "in charge" but the frequency drops when he's in charge and that's not workin for me either. I want I want I want.
