Our histories are different, but you’ve still pretty much described my current state of mind. Our SL is still a long way from what I would really like, but it’s much, much better than it has ever been before. Like you, we’re now at the point that I honestly don’t think there can be much more improvement until if and when W shows interest on her own to grow sexually. Things have improved dramatically, but like your H, she seems to picked things up to the point that she feels she is doing enough to keep me reasonably happy and keep me from constantly initiating R talks. But that’s all. And that appears to be all she is interested in.
