Yes he was sexually aggressive. Up to and until he started getting super involved with church. Then he mentally checked out of our marriage and his desire went with it.
Now he's back in the M, but his desire has taken a hit. He chalks it up to the kids--and this may be the case--but I am leery to agree to a mediocre sex life for the next 20 years, kwim?
He has agreed to a workup at the endocrinologist and was the one who suggested it. His hair falling out rapidly (within the last 6 months) has him weirded out. So we'll see what that turns up, though I am expecting normal results.
