Baffling isn't it? The whole "devil may care" traffic manuever seems so manly, so decisive and so indicative of a man who would have that attititude in other areas of his life. My H is baffling in exactly this same way. We came in from our date on Friday night and sat down to watch a DVD and he shooed every child big and small from the room because we were still having "Mom and Dad" time. Yet, he is unable to shut things out of his consciousness, or his life on behalf of sex with his W on a normal Wednesday night a great deal of the time.