Mrs NOP, I understand that the high level of sexual frequency in your marriage is something that you and NOP arrived at together and that both of you are committed to it and that it is rewarding to both of you in somewhat different ways and for somewhat different reasons. But you both agree it is important and rewarding.
I'm wondering if this experience has changed you in such a way that if (God forbid a thousand times) you found yourself at some point in life in another relationship for whatever reason (again, God forbid), would you still want a high level of frequency, or would you (excuse the expression) relapse to your default condition of LD BEHAVIOR. I'm really not asking you to speculate on life without NOP, but I don't know any other way to ask the question... would you be higher D in another R after seeing and feeling the benefits of more sex? Or do you think this high frequency of sex is unique to you and NOP and is a function of this R alone and cannot be generalized to another one?
