MrsNop And at the end of it all - all I have to offer is my heart, my openness, my willingness to keep plugging away at it, my vulnerability, my occasional laughter and occasional tears at my inability. Sounds good to me, especially being a LDW and having sex regurally with your H. Too many LDW's (none that that post) won't do half what you are doing and that is why some of the sex starved H's here are so dissapointed. Effort counts big time.
RE HP All I know is that I am a compassionate person and I know the difference between a person who is giving his all and a person who is holding back. I can feel the difference. I have compassion for his fear of intimacy but I have no patience for it, is the best way to phrase it!.
I know in my case I can feel the holding back big time. It's like a persom who cooks eggs, bacon, and toast for his/her 20 lb overweight spouse and says "here is your breakfast Fat a$$"
I likes GGB post about his W reading all kinds of books for things she likes but won't read anything about sex or relationships.
