RE HP where you take an antibiotic pill every time you have sex, to prevent the UTI. You might want to haul BB to the doc and see if this is something she'd be interested in
We talked about that some. Did you know you can get test strips to determine if you actually have a UTI and not something that feels like a UTI?

BB does not want to become immune to the super bugs which is a down side of taking too many antibiotics. Right now I think the washing before and after should help lots. BB does pee after (not fast or happy) sex. I say if we keep doing what we did last time, the UTI's should be 80% reduced. But what do I know.

If the UTI's come back then I will ask for antibotics for each sexual encounter befoe a UTI shows up.

LOL He was young and cute and ran his hands lightly over my abdomen looking at the appendectomy scar. Not that I LIKED it or anything, it was PURELY medicinal
I had something like that happen to me one time. This female doc (good looking and "very personable") did a prostate exam. I did not know what to say so just made some remark like "its still there, is it". It was one of those frustrating touches. I almost was going to tell her she did not have t do that part of the annual physical but thought she chose her profession and it's "medical".

It used to be guys under 40 won't let a male doc do a prostate exam. They don't like anyone touching their butt let alone another guy. Girl friend/wife, maybe.

I forgot agout the younger generation were anal activities are on the table and OK. Lot different than my sheltered past were oral was only for sluts/cunts and whoering-around-guys.

(lord, how I'm sick of being in stirrups
BB said when she had our kids I would not make a good PG woman because of the stirrup times. Back then almost no one touched me except for BB. I like to be touched all over from her.

You said something about getting your medical records from the doc. Most will make copies for your new doc. but wont give you the origionals. They clain they own the records. At least that is what happen to me.

Like most people I went along with the doc's plan but when I went to this other doc, he set me straight. He said to insist on getting copies of what I wanted. He even gave my MRI films to keep. I showed the films to other docs (insurance company review)and they could not believe I had them in my posession. Some wanted to return them to my origional doc but I said No, I was in charge of them. It's not like I was going to alter them so did not see the need for the docs to control their movements or storage.

Tooo many people let the doc make all of the decisions and too many people play along with what doc-god said. I am not saying to buck the system at the least slight you feel, but to carry out what you think is best for you.

Lou