Honey, how do you think your H would have reacted if he had finished the spackling and come up to bed to find you in bed under the covers with the lights out fast asleep (to all outward appearances)?
Would he (may select more than one answer)
a) have been relieved that he didn't have to put out.
b) disappointed because he wanted to ML.
c) thought "Uh oh! I'm in the doghouse-- she came out of the bathroom and she saw that I went off to squeeze in a chore instead of squeezing her."
d) figured you were tired and wouldn't give the matter another thought.