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I think the issues is closer to what Honey describes... he just wants to control himself. Maybe he thinks that if he gets to Doing It and Liking It a lot, somehow he'll be in my power. Maybe this ties in with his refusal to do ANYTHING on my schedule unless he thought of it first. OIW a huge control issue.






I'm back to this theory again too. Probably because my H told me that the problem is that most women "bend" easier than me. I was also thinking about an occasion when we were lying in bed together and I was crying because he had rejected my advances and he said to himself "I can't let you guilt me into doing it.". WTF??

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