RE: Lil
He decided he just wasn't going to be the so-called typical guy who's always after pu$$y .
I can understand not wanting to be like some typical guys (I did the same thing as a teenager and when I was in my early 20's, to to an extent Lil)
but
He was enjoying it, making the appropriate noises and saying, "Gee, babe, that feels real good," etc. Then after a few minutes he pulls out, zips up, and goes back to working in the yard I don't understand this part.
Although I really don't talk to other guys about BJ's, I can't imagine a guy that gets half way there just dropping the opportunity. I can understand switching from a BJ to IC and kissing, especially to give something back to you. I would imagine a woman wants something in return and if they don't get it they quit giving.
Could it be he was worried if he got something from you he felt he had to return the favor? Some people just do not want to "owe" anyone anything or maybe he felt like he had nothing to give so he felt he couldn't take the gift from you. I know I feel uncomfortable recieving a gift sometimes if I don't have anything I can give back at some point in time.
Have you ever been to a birthday party where the host said no gifts and you knew if you brought one anyway you would not be invited to the next birthday party? This is kind of a reverse of the above but might apply in some cases.
Does he think oral is not a proper form of sexual expression, chicken to do it to you, or does he think the only good sex has to involve a hard penis? I suspect his ED really sends him mixed messages along with the messages he formed throughout his life.
The more I learn, strangness seems to be almost normal because people vary so much.
