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Journey,
What else can ya tell me, my sister? How did you climb out of this type of thinking? And I have to tell you that I find your whole trip amazing.






Well, HP, I have quoted this before, from a Bob Dylan song: "I was so much older then, I'm younger than that now." I really do miss my daughter right about now, because if I say anything remotely philisophical to her, she will mock me by doing a Yoda imitiation ( we are visitng her this weekend).

The irony of the whole thing is that I wake up to play only to find that my H has the same issues and then some. Yup, life is an amazing trip, say I.

I have one quick question for you... Who are your H's friends? I ask because in my college days I had a few (very) HD girlfriends but over time, I gravitated to the LD neurotic mom group. I bet you know them well. Awhile back, I did some volunteering at the school and was thrown in with a bunch of more fun loving, raucousy women and I came to really like them ( and thought they were great moms too) and they would gently make fun of me and helped to loosen me up. I recently met up with an old college friend was was HD and helped to snap her out of uptightville ( this didn't take too much effort, though). It helps if there is a good friend in the picture with a healthy attitude.