You've just described MrsBube. She doesn't think of herself as a sexy or sexual person.
Quote: It's almost like he separates himself from his sexuality. He likes it when it happens but he prefers it boxed off somewhere far away, to be taken out when the need arises.
That sums it up very well. That's more of why I think there's a vibrantly sexy woman in there somewhere: when she gets it out of the box, she seems to really enjoy it. I'm just trying to figure out how to change that mindset. I want her to see that her sexuality isn't something to be boxed up and stored on the top shelf in the closet until it's needed.
