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Remember, Cally, you catch more flies with honey than sulfuric acid. Yes I know the Biblical phrase was vinegar. The problem is that so many women I've known use (metaphorically) strong acid to catch flies--vinegar would be a step in the right direction.




Okay why I know this is true....I find myself so angry anymore. I am so hostile and angry on the outside. But inside I feel I am crying. I have been in a SSM for 8 years and I find myself at this point to be resentful and angry at him and towards him. Today was another example of anger.I asled my husband two simple things......balance the checkbook if you are going to use your debit card or checkbook. Two please while I am working buy some grass seed and put it out. I had spent 3 hours tilling the yard. All I asked while I had to go work 9 hours is just pour bag in spreader and spread it. Well, not only does he not balance the checkbook. He didn't spread the seed because he waited to long and it rained.

Now before I started working I calmly told my husband if he wanted me to work outside the home he was going to have to help. I said if we are both working full time you need to do half the chores in the house. I asked him to take over the bills and finances for one. Not only does he refuse to take over the finaces or pay a bill. He hasn't helped hardly at all. I spend half the day cleaning and half the day working. I am finding myself exhausted, bitter, and angry. I don't know what to do with this anger. It's like I have another child in the house. So here's to how I have to pay the bills or handle finaces......guess how much is in there. He uses the debit card regularly and doesn't deduct it ever.

LOL Okay I vented on the anger management thread.