Quote: H said that he thinks that I am having sex with someone...
Tough sh** buddy! So what if she is. Quit talking out of both sides of your mouth!
Quote: then he also told me that he tried to stop talking to OW but that he cant.
C'mon, he can't? When he's driving and the light turns red soes he run it because "he can't" stop? Pleeeeeeeeaaaaaase!!
I'm sorry, I'm stumped by him Michelle. Does he know JVJKB's H? I know I'm repeating myself, but Detach, Detach, Detach. Why is it that you can come home and he's hanging out? You've got rights. (Here comes mean DMF...) Stand up for the Blonde Cutie. Do it for you, do it for Hannah.
You often say things to me that are some of the nicest things anyone has ever said to/about me. Michelle, someone with as big a heart as you doesn't deserve this. I still understand deep down that you may want everything back to "the way it was" and you can see a glimpse of him being a loving gentle husband. Maybe so... But maybe that ain't gonna happen. The only way you'll know is to DETACH, DETACH, DETACH.
You've been kind enough to follow my situation almost since the beginning. You were the first one on these boards to "take me under your wing", and you have seen me at my sniveling worst, pining away for my W. You have seen me detach from her and now as the beloved Anna says, she's "buzzing" around me. Well at this point it doesn't make a difference either way, and I fell much better about ME!
You have so many "sister goddesses" (and me) who have grown to feel very close to you. I can only speak for myself when I say that it physically hurts sometimes to read your posts. At the risk of drawing the scrutiny of some people out here...