Quote: . What other things can I do to show that I want us but to show that I dont want to take all of the [censored]?
Might I suggest not taking any of his s**t? If you don't take it, he'll stop giving it. Whenever he tries to dish out some s**t and call it chocolate, walk away, excuse yourself and hang up the phone, politely and indifferently leave the room. He gets no access to you if he doesn't treat you with kindness.