I agree with you completely...I wish that I could believe that he will stop completely but unfortunately I know how she is and that she will do anything to keep him. This will be the hardest and most challenging part. Can he do it forever? I can't make up his decision...but then I must ask myself that if he can do it....will I be able to trust and accept him again...if it comes down to it! This is so confusing. We will see if he calls or contacts me tonight....I will keep you posted.