Well everyone I ended up not going to the fair last night but I went today.
Saturday night was a little weird...H called again and said that he wanted to see me and Hannah...so of course I gave in and we went to dinner with his sister and had a nice time. Afterwards we talked a little about his attitude lately adn I told him that his moods switch faster then the wind. He said that he agrees....then he asked if he could come over and I said sure. We got along good and had no R talks.
Sunday...H new that I was going to the fair with Hannah and he said that he would like to go. I said okay and we went...we were on this ride kind of like a ski lift and we look down and see my aunt and cousin and friends(these are friends that hate my H for what he has done and one of the friends works at the same company as OW)they didnt see us but H told me that it looks as if I am embarrassed of him. I said that I am not embarrassed to be with him but that I know that they think that I am stupid for still trying and I didnt want to deal with all of that today. It did put a damper on the day a little but we made it through it...but left shortly after. On the way home it was okay and then the wind shifted...out of the blue...H got really grumpy and said drop me off and I dont want to spend anymore time with you today. It hurt me a little but I said fine. Then I asked him what was going on. I told him that without communication we cant get through problems. He then told me this...(wait one second I forgot to tell you all something. Last night his phone was vibrating and I told him that he can answer it and go into another room to take it and he said no and then it buzzed that he had a voicemail) okay now back to the story...he said that he has told the OW that he doesnt want to talk or see her anymore..and that she keeps calling him because she doesnt believe him. I asked what made him make this decision and H said that he needed to do this to work on us. I then of course aske if he thought that he was going to be able to do this and he said yes...and then hugged me. I think that makes a lot of sense with his mood swings lately but I still dont know if I can believe that he can really do it. I am not getting my hopes up.
What should I do or say now? Any suggestions?