Okay just an update.... I am feeling that something is going on with H. When I have spoken to him lately I feel like he is trying to DB me in a way. H is acting happy and energetic...it makes me wonder what is going on. We dont have long conversations and I feel like he is getting a little distant. I guess that only time will tell. I just hate that I am so confused. Maybe he needs time but maybe he is really enjoying his no responsibility life and will never come back. I feel like I am on a solo rollercoaster and I am about to puke.....lol! H was lacking even asking about how D1 was until yesterday...doesnt he wonder how she is and what she is up to? His sister called and told me that he has been home and not staying in his room all of the time. Maybe this is my destiny...I just wish I had more input into it!