Quote: While I was leaving last night he started asking about the car again...I guess he is mad because he isnt getting one. So...today he hates me...last night he wrote on my hand that he loved me
As I read this, my first really cynical reaction was, 'huh, he's just out to use her'. Then I remembered something my D4 does. When she wants me to do something for her and if I am not in the mood or if she can tell that I am undecided, she says 'mummy, i'll be your friend if you'll ...'. I think maybe your H is just focused on getting the car and is childishly manipulating you to get what he wants and I honestly feel that this manipulation may even be a subconscious effort, and not a deliberate act of using you. However, having said that I dont think you should get him the car. Maybe you need to ask yourself, will buying him a car bring the two of you closer. And take it one step further, if it doesnt take you closer but instead, once he has his car, he forgets about you, how will you feel and will it be worth giving him the car to feel that way?
