Sorry to hear about your sitch. Hoped you took up on DMF's offer...sounded like something you and Hannah needed. Like NY said, you need to drop the rope on H. H is being an a**hole right now and I'm sure OW is enjoying every minute of it. I've always told my H there are 2 sides of every story and his side was not as bad as he told everyone...so I'm sure the OW is hearing all kinds of bad things about you and how badly you treated your H. My H played the victim in our sitch and had everyone feeling sorry for him until they found about OW and basically turned their backs on him. My H is now back at home and has been H for 5 weeks now, which is a record since October 2004.
My advice would be not to answer H phone calls, don't call him just to say hi, don't email, dont' text him...end all contact with H unless of course it is about Hannah. Trust me this has worked for me in the past, and it won't be easy.
My H and I are dealing with all kinds of issues right now with OW, check out my thread.
DON'T BUY HIM A CAR!!! Due to my H's inability to handle his own finances and making promises to me in the past about taking care of some of our bills (that did not get paid) we are now going to have to file bankruptcy
Hang in there.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years
