Sorry to interupt...but first day on the site. I have ordered the books and I am awaiting their arrival ..so that I can get started...however I've got a question that is eating me up...my wife told me she no longer wants to be married that she has been unhappy many years and that she is finished with our marriage ( yeah in hind sight I see all the clues - however I also find out that at the same time she met someone else (she says one is not related to the other just a coincidence) and that this affair is ongoing two meetings but lots of e-mail there is great distance between them 1500 miles) Question should I contact HIS wife and let her in on the affair or just keep quite? and do my own thing. Thanks for any assistance.
