Dont worry too much about the trying to buy his love and affection, yes it was not right to think just because you help him buy a car he will stop his R with OW....Believe me first hand. I was not trying to use the motorcycle as a tool to make him stop talking to OW, but I did think that the bike would help reconnect us, so in a way I pushed for the purchase. H ultimately made the decision as he had been eye balling it since Nov...But he left 4 days after we picked up the bike...SO DONT DO IT GIRL DOnt help with the car ok
