It is certainly one sitch one day at a time - it feels like we are dealing with a different prob. with the same person each day - keep working on it and remember each day is another opportunity.

Couple of thoughts since i have been absent...

I can certainly understand dodgerMFs positive attitude if you both have agreed to go out and party with him - that would certainly lend a smile to the face and a spring to the step.

National No Calling WAS Day - should now be followed by "Go out and find my smile day" - usually celebrated at a bar or lake - with friends and family -

when that road trip starts make sure you dip a bit south if you get around Toronto and pick me up, its only about 15 hours from there