Quote: sex does not solve the problems, but it does help to regain closeness, so all does not have to be looked at like a negative.
This is quite well-said. I don't get any closeness with H other than these ML sessions. I do feel some connection in that sense. I don't feel used, cause lately my hormones have been raging and I am thinking about ML all the time.. terrible I know...LOL As my mom said..."Use H as a S#x slave.." ha ha ha..LOL
Blonde - Think the key is NOT to expect any cuddles or ILYs or tender kisses, then you won't be disappointed when you don't get it. (After-all, you don't expect your s@x-slave to kiss and cuddle you, right? You should be whipping him...ha ha ha LOL)