Ok, I'm doing it for you...

Goals...(combined with 180s)
One fun thing with D1 every day
New toenail colour every week, for you and D1
Go buy some decadent food to keep in fridge
Morning meditation
Next time H starts being verbally abusive, smile knowingly and say 'Wow - you're really looking to push my buttons. What's up with that?'
Party with Anna

Positives
I'm blonde
I'm cute
I'm a fabulous mother
I have the patience of a saint
I am still sensitive and haven't let H make me hardened

See how easy it is?