I'm with Anna, this is getting ridiculous. You ask us questions. Let me ask you one and please take it with all the respect I have for you.
What do you want to do?
We try and make things more complicated than they are sometimes, myself included. But (and I hate cliches) at the end of the day, what's best for Michelle and Hannah? Is it maybe worth struggling a little off the bat but not have to put up with what you are dealing with? Or is it to be comfortable and wonder if the verbal barrage is coming today or tomorrow or what?
Please don't do anything, make any decision based on "Well, Anna, DMF, or whoever says I should do this", but I'm starting to get a pit in my stomach when I read your posts.
Enough. Michelle, just please take care of yourself and Hannah first. That's it.
