Hello Everyone I was locked out of my other thread so here is my new one.

By the way Happy Belated Fathers Day to all the daddys out there.

So....I ended up seeing H all weekend because my stepson and then Fathers Day. I have learned that we get along when we are together and when we are not there is always the bickering. I have figured out that I give to much help to my husband so that he can see D1. His car is still broke down so I take Hannah to see him. I kept Devin on Thursday and took him to school Friday and then picked him up. Dont get me wrong I dont mind at all but I think that H needs to take more responsibility for his children.

Friday is when I found out that H was with OW in Vegas for my birthday. I dont know why people have to show you pictures...I think that it hurts more. H said that she was at the same wedding and they got together for a quick pic. Remember he told me that he wasnt around her at all that weekend.
Saturday...I picked up Devin and took Hannah and Deving to get pictures together. The pics turned out great. Then when we got back to H sisters house (where H is living)and I went with his family to do the birthday thing for H mom. Everything went okay. Like I said we get along when we are together.
Sunday...I dropped Hannah off at H house and H was in a bad mood with me. It started off when I called him in the morning to set up the plans for the day. I said Happy Fathers day and then he started complaining about not having a car to take the kids somewhere. I apologized that he is having those problems and he hung up on me. H wants me to help him get a car. When I got to the house he was real short with me and told me that he doesnt need my help with a car and that he is never moving home because he isnt in love with me and that he cant force himself to love me. It killed me because I come out of my way so that he can see his kids and then he hits me with these comments. I cried when I got in the car all the way from Covina to Seal Beach where I took my dad and grandpa to breakfast. Then later on when I picked up daughter he still didnt talk very much and of course didnt offer to talk about anything.
Today...H calls in the morning to let me know what Devin is doing today since he is out of school and then tells me that he was looking for a car on the internet and he found a used Mercedes that he is going to look at today. I told him that was great and then he said .... I told my sister that if we get back together you will probably want to drive the Mercedes and I will drive the Magnum. WTF? Yesterday we will never be together again and now I might want to drive the car if we do.

Sorry this is so long but I wanted you to see why I get confused with the way he changes. Why do we get along when we are together? Why does he ask if I am with this other guy? Why is he so wishy washy? and What should I say or do? Any insight will be helpful.