Quote: Did the results surprise you or is that what you were expecting?
It was pretty much what I was expecting. My H has pretty much been expecting normal results too since his doctor told him that he doubted that was his problem. At first, my H had a reaction that was good from my perspective. He decided that since it wasn't the hormones, it must be a psychological problem that he just needed to "get over" and that is why we've been having sex pretty frequently the last few weeks. However, he has now decided that he can be HD if he wants to be therefore if he doesn't want to be HD with me there must be something wrong with me. What is wrong with me is I used to be too fat and I'm still a little too fat and now that I am not too fat, I am too demanding and not as nice. He said that I don't understand men and most women "bend" more easily than me. Apparently, he wants to be married to a fully-posable Barbie doll. My reaction to this comment was "Please go find someone more submissive than me." at which point he did backpedal his way out of the cave a bit .
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
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