JJ, another reason why you should go on this trip is that 4's have a push-pull style of relating. They want what they don't have and as soon as they get it, they don't want it any more. Well, that's a bit of an overstatement... but for instance, I decided to spend the night out at my house tonight... I just need some space. But sitting here at my computer, I'm already missing my bf. If I were there at his house, I'd be wishing I was out here alone.
Is this the longest you've ever been away, leaving HIM at home? I know he traveled before, but have you left him on his own?