I need help. I have been reading the posts on the SSM and I am still confused. My husband would rather masterbate then ML to me. I feel so rejected to know he is getting off by himself in the bathroom, and I am alone in the bed, frustrated. This has been going on for a while now. He likes to be affectionate, cuddle, a kiss here and there. He likes it when I massage him, but i can not go near the forbidden zone. I finally bought myself a vibrator, but it just isn't the same. The Orgasms are great but I miss the intimacy.