Quote: Like for instance my husband doesn't realize but we could be arguing and he could probably lift me up and carry me off to the bedroom and have his way with me.
Cally, not to take this thread off track, but how would a guy tell the difference between a put-off from a LDW, kind of a no sex, and we are arguing and if the guy did everything right, the LDW would want sex?
I know your H is the LD person in your M. Do you think some LDW would want to have sex after some arguments. Any clues to when "no means yes, just try harder, or something else?" I get the confidence concept but some women see confidence as selfish or ego boosting.
I guess I bought into the "no means no" and after debating or semi arguing women were not interested in sex. I read where JJ said she likes make-up sex and sex is one way to make up.
Maybe Lil's book Reclaiming Your Sexual Self might have some answers.
(thinking out loud No sex during the week? I thought only women were that way.)
