Quote: the key to success, is to not be afraid to ask for what you need/want to be happy in your relationship.
Applauds!
The fact that guys "just don't get it and have to be told" what you want directly vs being intuitive to your, female needs, seems so "empty" and hand holding, like a youngster. Yet, here again is an example where you have to coax, demand, beg, or just plain ask for what you want and happiness follows. I too am learning thru the encounters of the ppl on this BB. Congrats to you JJ!
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay