Quote: Why in God's green earth do you continue to F@#k with this guy? Porno? Not sexually driven. You seem to be an intelligent and motivated woman. your posts are sensous. Your H, as you describe him, appears to be a slug. You're asking a Clydesdale to run the Kentucky Derby!
I've always had a problem with my H rejecting me sexually. It's only recently that I've had problems with him expressing resentment about having sex with me. This is obviously happening because I am insisting that he stop rejecting me so much and initiate more often. Unlike many LD spouses described on this BB, I've always considered my H to be a good lover. The analogy I would use is a talented musician who for whatever reason has little interest in picking up his instrument. The fact that I am insisting that he play when he doesn't feel inspired is leading to some crashing chords of frustration.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
