Quote: He needs you, but he doesn't want you. You want him, but you don't need him. Isn't it ironic?
I think it might be true that our spouses feel more like they need us than they want us, but I doubt that is really the case. I mean what do you think your W would do with the rest of her life if you died or metamorphized into a bug a la Kafka?
It may be true that it is difficult to want somebody in your life when you feel like you need them in your life. By not encouraging or even insisting that our spouses to be the kind of spouses anyone would want, we are contributing to their dependency and consequently their resentment.
Quote: P.P.S. I hope you were a good wifey and watched the Pistons game with H .
LOL- I tried to but I fell asleep. I am sadly LD for sports. I keep meaning to take up gambling as a way to gain some interest so that my H and I can share a recreational activity.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
