Zbube, I get what you're saying but I think that MrHP gets his fill of all of those things--the feel, the smell, the texture, etc, in QUANTITY so he doesn't feel the need to spend a whole ton of time on it every single time. He likes those same elements but he is so overwhelmed with me hanging on him every night that he is much less likely to seek it out and want to prolong it.
Plus, like I said, you've got your relishers and your Just get er done-ers.
In my experience for not Im tired of the quikies. Im tired of having the feeling of hurry up and get it over with. I would love some extended Foreplay. I can see if sex was a regular occasion that I would want both. I know that I as the HD really really enjoy forplay. It is almost as much fun as the actual act.
I'm with ZB here. I personally don't enjoy IC most of the time without at least some extended foreplay. One thing that is frustrating to me is when I get W warmed up with little reciprocity from her to get me going, and then she wants IC right now. It's like she wants to get it over with. There is never a second round
HP, the problem is if you relish the hotdog while he is already giving it all he can mustard, then you may leave you in a position where you has to ketchup before he's ready to slide the weenie between the buns
No, HP, no relish for me. Way back in a small portion of my misspent youth, I worked for a while (a short while) in a pickle factory. That cured me of ever using relish again. The less said about that, the better
Do you think she knows that you want foreplay geared at you? Is it something you have communicated with her?
I ask because her mindset may be "this is what it takes to get me off and that's what it takes to get you off. So we're both doing what it takes to get each other off."
If it isn't something you've discussed, she may not really understand (though I know it seems like it would be intuitive that reciprocal would be a good thing) that you would like a little more attention prior to insertion. In fact, she may see what she's doing AS reciprocal.
Zbube, H and I used to have a garden and we'd make pickles. Surprisingly this was an activity my H immensely enjoyed. Normally he's not much for kitchen activities of any kind. He loved the process of making the pickles and curing them in the basement, etc. And WOW were they good. I don't care for commercial pickles of any kind, really, because the homemade ones are so delectable as to make the store bought ones not worth it.
So when I'm speaking of relishing the hot dog, I'm talking about relish made from homemade pickles made from homegrown cukes. Fresh, made in my own kitchen and made with loooove. Ahh, it doesn't get any better than that.
We've discussed it, but lately I am getting the feeling we are speaking different languages when we discuss sexual preferences....mostly I speak and she changes the subject Guess I should bring it up again, huh?
