is it just coincidence that most often when I write on my thread something negative you bump up one of these positive threads?
Yes, it really is just a coincidence! (At least this time it was, anyway!! )
Forgive my brevity for the moment, but I just wanted to touch base with you real quick, and will try to get back with you soon. Also, I wanted to commend you on all the GAL things you've been doing, and how hard you've been trying to get your marriage to where you want it to be.
Just to throw this out there for now, and not for any actions yet, it seems to me like "passive" forms of DB'ing have yielded results for you, but not quite the results you've been looking for. If I recall correctly, it seems like more "aggresive" DB'ing helped to at least bring him back to you. Is that correct?
Again, not for action yet, but I'm wondering what types of "drastic" 180's might be out there for you to really shake things up a bit? You've done so many things "right" so far, and maybe it's time to do something different?
Again, sorry to be so brief, but just some food for thought. Will try to get back with you some more later!
JJ
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