what was I thinking

[sage]

LL,

Just a thought...take your post and go the next level...what if you both WERE accurate at that time...is it true? what do you actually know to be "fact" versus an overlay of emotion on top of everything.

Here's my blunt observation...when I read your posts I often have the thought "she's trying to cram a square peg into a round hole...what if she just 'embraced' the square peg"? IOW, what if you just devoted your abundant energy to appreciating and working with who your h actually IS instead of what you want him to be?

Perhaps that could be an add on to your post...if you accept the notion that you and h are entirely TOO different to be together but you ARE together...what would it feel like to just 100% accept him?

Sage