OK, so bear with me as some explaining needs to be done...
h as I've stated before pretty much does nothing with us (the kids and I) he leaves for work before we wake and goes to sleep before us (sometimes 7:30) We haven't been physical in over two months etc.
I have a friend who is currently going through a D...long story...
I had a big cookout here on the 3rd to celebrate the 4th. the soon to be D'd friend came and got very drunk...so while I was lighting off fireworks for the 30+ people that made it outside to watch them..drunken friend stayed inside with another friend who was watching over her...however my h stayed inside feeding her more drinks while she flirted with him...a few of my friends (including the one who stayed inside with her and fought with her the whole time to stop it) saw and were disgusted with it.
I haven't yet said anything to the friend because I want to get all the stories straight before confronting her...
sad part is I'm more annoyed with h for staying inside with her and sucking up the flirting while I lit off the fireworks outside myself.
If my h will sit and enjoy being severly flirted with by one of my friends while I'm right outside what advances would he accept and enjoy from another women when he's not at home?
I want out but don't have enough to go on right now!
also should add that one other person stayed inside during the fireworks...h's buddie (who is married and who's wife was outside) who was heavily flirting with the friend who was inside to keep an eye on the drunken friend...she who is not married got disgusted with this married guy flirting with her that she came outside.
