Ok so it may not be the greatest solution but it's a begining and something that did work in the past...unfortunatley it didn't last as there was a falling out.
H and I need a outgoing couple to go out with or get together with...NO, not in a swinger kind of way....but in a way that I've noticed h is more receptive to plans of going out or doing things if a, we are invited by others or b, there are others involved.
before our seperation and for some time after we did have a couple that we doubled with every other week...a buddy of h's from hs and his wife whom I'm still friends with...trouble is about a year and a half ago the guys had a falling out over something trivial and neither will contact the other so that's out.
we do have the dinner club that meets monthly but that's just not enough.
when we were double dating with the other couple it got us out and therefore got us going out alone the other weekends or at least doing stuff together.
so how to find a couple that live close enough and that we both like both partners (nothing like having the wives get along but the h's not or visa versa) without sounding like swingers.
