Quote: It's worth a shot see how your H reacts to this and even if he dosen't you will be advancing yourself towards financial independence away from him.
When I joined the ambulance co I had to take an emt course it was 2 nights a week for 3 months and several saturdays...I had to have my mom come and stay with the kids til h got home from work and find a sitter for most of the saturdays...Didn't change his attitude..infact I often feel my obligation to the ambulance co annoys him..no matter how much advance notice I give him when I'm covering a weekend shift (sat or sun from 6am to 6am once a month) he gets an attitude and eventually I still have to find a sitter. Getting a part time job wouldn't be worth it to me or to the potential employer...h only expects his employees to put their job first and would not make it easy for me to get to work on time and paying someone to watch the kids would make the pay irrelevant. And of course he'd expect the money I earn to go to him. The courses I want to take are not free and will take time and attention.
