I don't know if it's him or me or just us but I'm not happy with the state of my marriage.
I am not naive and know full well that the intensity of things upon h's first return home wouldn't couldn't last but it seems as if things have not only come full circle but gotten worse than they were before he left in the first place.
If I feel the relationship is empty, lacking, fading...how can he possibly think otherwise?
we don't spend time together we don't really talk (unless you count "did you get in touch with the septic system people", "I've got an appointment tonight so should be home @ 7 ", "goodbye" "goodnight") We are not affectionate with eachother other than the obligatory peck hello upon returning from work
I don't know what if anything can be done to change things...it seems as if h is just happy to go with the flow...work..pay the bills and let his wife and kids do their thing but I thought that was just him before and was fooled because all the while he had himself a female friend to visit for lunch several times a week.
