should add when I express how I feel about how things are going his response is nothing more than "well that sux".

conversations either direct or implied don't /haven't work/ed.

letters don't/ haven't worked

threats don't/ haven't worked

in other words I'm supposed to just be happy that I have a roof over my head, a green lawn and a sweaty snoring lump in the bed every night.

I'm about ready to just go with the flow and when the time is right pack my bags and walk away.

LL