Well, as a lurker who doesn't post often, I'll tell you MY objection to swallowing. It's a sensory thing... kind of like trying to swallow a raw egg. If it hits the back of my throat, I gag, immediately! Perhaps it's 'all in my head', but it's a pretty unpleasant experience all the same!

And just to be informative, I'm the LD in the relationship, and I do give bj's (not as often as he would like I'm sure! ) but I tend to do it and 'finish' with IC or HJ. Hubby is wonderful to warn me if he is getting close to ejaculating. He has never 'surprised me', so he gets them far more often!!!